It is with profound sadness and broken hearts that we announce the sudden and unexpected passing of our beloved father, Jose Ongay, of Bayonne, New Jersey, on April 25, 2025.
Jose was more than just a father, grandfather, and friend — he was a pillar of strength, compassion, and unwavering loyalty. A proud veteran, Jose served honorably in the military for over 20 years, dedicating his life to protecting and serving his country with courage and commitment. His service reflected the values he lived by every day: integrity, sacrifice, and a deep love for others.
Outside of his military career, Jose’s greatest pride and joy were his family. He was the devoted father of four children, each of whom carries his enduring spirit, and the adoring grandfather to five grandchildren who lit up his world. To his family, Jose was more than a patriarch — he was a source of wisdom, laughter, and unconditional love. His sense of humor was infectious, his guidance was steady, and his presence offered comfort through life’s ups and downs.
Jose’s sudden passing has left a profound void in the lives of all who knew and loved him. The shock of his loss is felt deeply by his children, grandchildren, extended family, friends, and community members who were fortunate to have crossed paths with him. His memory will forever live on in the countless lives he touched with his kindness, selflessness, and quiet strength.
As the family faces the unimaginable grief of losing Jose, they are also navigating the unexpected burden of funeral costs and related expenses. In honoring Jose’s legacy and giving him the dignified farewell he deserves, the family is reaching out for support during this incredibly difficult time. Any contribution, no matter how small, will go directly toward covering funeral arrangements and memorial services, allowing his loved ones to focus on celebrating his life and healing from this heartbreaking loss.
Jose Ongay’s life was a testament to service, love, and resilience. As we mourn his passing, we also celebrate the remarkable man he was — a hero in uniform, a rock for his family, and a shining example of a life well lived.
We thank you from the bottom of our hearts for your prayers, support, and any assistance you can offer as we honor the life and memory of Jose Ongay.
Rest in peace, Dad. You will be forever missed and forever loved.
